January 2025

I received a call from an executive leader of a company a few months ago. He wanted to enlist my help on a couple of searches that his organization was having trouble filling. These were not highly complex roles to fill by any means, but given the tightness of the marketplace, finding the right people and keeping them beyond a year is proving to be a challenge. My kickoff call went well, but ultimately, discussions stopped there. I was told during the call that they had a few recruitment partners that were working with on the searches, but for reasons unclear to me, they were not able to successfully fill their positions. Essentially, they wanted to add me as another recruiter since I was known to one of their executives in the company, under the pretense that more eyes on a search means greater odds of a successful outcome. I challenged the train of thought by suggesting that perhaps your approach to date is not working and maybe you should try something different. I realized today that most business leaders are afraid of change, and they are wired to engage in the same behaviour hoping that somehow circumstances will work out differently in the future. I think by definition you can call that insanity, yet most people are okay to remain in this state and this has somehow translated to be what’s best for business. It’s like repeatedly hitting your head against the wall and complaining about your headache. We are okay to have multiple recruiters working on a given search at the same time, yet we employ the services of one mechanic if our car needs an oil change or one law firm if we are being sued. I’ve never heard anyone say that they were going to use multiple surgeons to remove their gallbladder to increase the chances of a successful operation. Yet, this has become the dominate thought related to recruitment and then we wonder why positions are taking longer to fill and hires don’t make it past the first year of employment. Let’s try something different.

The courtship precedes any successful relationship for good reason and regular maintenance of that relationship is a must. Just ask anyone who has been married for more than 90 days or been in business for more than 10 years. Finding that great candidate or trying to build your team of professionals without healthy steps towards courtship is counterproductive. As a Recruiter approaching 15 years in the industry, I’ve facilitated many great relationships. Fortunately, I’ve witnessed hiring processes that were collaborative & just a joy for everyone to be part of, and others that would make you cringe. The onus rests on business leaders to create a good runway for those they are looking to hire. One of the worst things to do during the courtship is to make the other party feel like you are doing them a favour or leading them on a journey to nowhere. The best amongst us will be able to sniff this out early. If it’s not a fit or the timing is off, all parties should be able to understand so long as honesty and transparency were woven into the process from the beginning. If you’re a business leader overseeing a project team or product group, you will have to perform regular maintenance on those relationships. The camaraderie within the team falls entirely on your shoulders. Don’t make it easy for people like me to lure your best people away. Hire right, and treat your people well enough so that even the best offer they could receive won’t move them. This is the challenge because we are so narrow-minded, egotistical, and oblivious to what motivates our best people. One of the criticisms I received as an early driver was that I just drove my car. I did not do anything to take care of it. That explained a lot of the issues I had with that vehicle. I was reactive in the maintenance of my car when I should’ve been proactively checking the oil, tire pressure, coolant, and so forth. The cost associated with reacting far surpasses the cost of acting in the first place. Part of the maintenance on your team includes regular discussions about their goals and the career path they’d like to be on. Conscious at all times that this could be constantly evolving for some individuals. This is where not taking your people for granted comes into play. This could happen over lunch, bowling, or simply meeting as a team in your boardroom over coffee. This morning, I surprised my Wife with a bouquet of flowers, not because I’m a good husband, but because I’ve made a conscious decision to build a peaceful home and that requires maintenance in the areas that she finds meaningful. I am challenging business leaders to take regular steps towards building chemistry and trust within their team. The cost of not doing it is always bad for business (…but great for mine 😉)

Leadership is a dear subject to my heart. Having sat under my fair share of leaders, good & bad, I’ve seen what works and what doesn’t. This morning before Christmas breakfast, I stumbled onto an article about The San Antonio Spurs head coach, Gregg Popovich. Coach Pop, as he’s referred to by his players, has been coaching the Spurs for 28 years, a tenure that is not common in sports these days. In this revolving door society, it’s rare for anyone to stay with one organization for that length of time, especially over the last few years while the organization has been struggling to rebuild after their championship run. So, why has the organization bought into Coach Pop’s style of leadership, and how has he remained influential amongst his players 28 years in? The answer is simple and the excerpt from the article below sums up what I believe to be at the heart of responsible leadership: “A cornerstone of his philosophy is balancing the human and sporting aspects of coaching; a method he has employed repeatedly to extract the best performance from his players.” Chris Paul, the franchises newest point guard and seasoned NBA professional, highlighted Coach Pop’s “human-centered coaching philosophy.” “This balance of performance and personal connection is what has made his method a benchmark for coaching excellence.” This is frankly where a lot of leaders fall by the wayside amongst their followers. Being tactical is great. Technical expertise builds credibility, but it doesn’t foster trust and an unwavering commitment from your team. Understanding how grueling and lonely the NBA season can be for his players has made Coach Pop take a balanced approach to leadership that emphasizes stepping away to unwind and refuel with your loved ones. The 5 championships and cruise control to retirement makes perfect sense now. Be as demanding as you need to be, but keep the well-being of your team at the center of your leadership. If you do, then you’ll never have to ask them to go the extra mile. You won’t have to wonder if that request for an afternoon off is really a need to slip away for an interview with your competitor. This brand of leadership does not mean that you won’t experience turnover. In fact, talent will always leave for what they believe to be greener pastures. What Coach Pop can hang his hat on is not his retention of talent, but the caliber of men he is cultivating. This translates to better Fathers, Husbands, & other life accomplishments beyond basketball. When I was courting my now Wife some years ago and going through some personal struggles, my then Manager told me to take an afternoon off to take her to lunch. That was a crucial moment in our relationship and that afternoon set the foundation for what is now a wonderful marriage & life together. My tenure under his leadership had it’s fair share of challenges, but that moment was solidified in my heart as human-centered leadership at its finest. X’s and O’s are necessary and part of the scheme towards success, but put your people first and you’ll never have to worry about being fired or losing the faith of your team.